Want a more fulfilling life? Would you like to make more money, have a better marriage, and enjoy a healthier relationship with your kids? Why not? You’re only human!
While there are many factors that go into improving your life in any area, there is one underlining factor that is paramount. In fact, without this, regardless of anything else, you will not achieve success. Belief! Without a belief in yourself and your ability to achieve something, you have no chance. Belief, in my opinion, is the difference between those who achieve and those who don’t.
Paint A Different Picture
Each and every one of us comes from different circumstances in life, some had the advantage of a motivating and loving family, and others did not. I was very fortunate to have parents and a grandfather that told me over and over that I could achieve whatever I wanted. Others may not have had that growing up. However, as an adult, you must understand that regardless of what you have been told by these influences in your life, you can in fact achieve whatever you set out for. All you have to do is paint yourself a different picture.
Create a new BELIEF that says these folks were wrong. The people who told you couldn’t achieve did so because of THEIR issues, not yours. This has to become your new belief, because it is the truth. Just as many were told, “you can, you can” and failed miserably, others have been told, “you can’t, you can’t” and achieved greatness.
All you have to do is to decide to believe you CAN!
Want some overwhelming evidence? Just look around. We all have a tendency to focus on what is wrong with the world. Try this for a change; look at how many ordinary people are living the life you desire. How many are financially free, how many have amazing relationships with their family? If they can do it, why can’t you? The answer is you can, but you must first believe you can.
Forget your current circumstances. Forget what you have been told. Most importantly, forget anything you ever believed about yourself to this point that does not serve you in a positive way. Start this very second knowing that you can do whatever you want. At least by having this understanding and belief, you are giving yourself the best possible chance for success.
And, remember, if you need someone else to believe in you- I do!
Wishing you all the success you will allow yourself to have!